Talk to your child at least for 30 min daily.
We elders are often pre occupied with our work and daily chores and we don't have the time and patience to listen to the talks of our angels. We often say not now , I am busy....
The kids if we talk about in particular have so much to share as each day, each minute they are learning something new.. and that they wants to express.They want their near and dear ones to listen to them, to appreciate them.
Our 30 minutes daily will not only make them happy and give them the confidence to express themselves however it will also motivate them. If heard in the family they wont need to go out and share.
It is not just the kids who have a need for expression. It is also our need. each and every one of us are looking out for someone with whom we can speak our heart, someone who does not judge us or misunderstand us..Isnt it ???????????
There is a vast difference between this action of kids and elders... kids share happiness, something new and exciting that they have come across.Their body language is so positive and enthusiastic that we get mired in their baby talks and forget all our pressures.
On the other hand we elders generally share our sad incidents from our past or we enjoy blaming and cribbing about our past.For a break from our stressful life is going for a movies or chat with some friend...however I feel lucky are those families who have kids in there house as stress disappears in minutes from their lives. Kids are their stress buster.
So please give 30 min daily to your child and see how your life changes, your tension disappears in minutes, you will be very successful and happy. Their soft touch is so soothing and relaxing , their smile and that innocent look,the chuckle in their laugh and that twinkle in their eyes wow....... its heaven. The thought itself is so relaxing.......
Spending time with them not just relaxes us however our few words of true appreciation and that look in our eyes that yes I am listening to you will raise their self esteem ,give them the feeling of being loved and wanted.
Do this daily and see how their personality is groomed, then they wont have to go in for Personality development classes. Issues like socially withdrawn , low in confidence, many fears like fear of rejection, failure of failure will disappear.
Remember True personality is developed at home with parents.
We elders are often pre occupied with our work and daily chores and we don't have the time and patience to listen to the talks of our angels. We often say not now , I am busy....
The kids if we talk about in particular have so much to share as each day, each minute they are learning something new.. and that they wants to express.They want their near and dear ones to listen to them, to appreciate them.
Our 30 minutes daily will not only make them happy and give them the confidence to express themselves however it will also motivate them. If heard in the family they wont need to go out and share.
It is not just the kids who have a need for expression. It is also our need. each and every one of us are looking out for someone with whom we can speak our heart, someone who does not judge us or misunderstand us..Isnt it ???????????
There is a vast difference between this action of kids and elders... kids share happiness, something new and exciting that they have come across.Their body language is so positive and enthusiastic that we get mired in their baby talks and forget all our pressures.
On the other hand we elders generally share our sad incidents from our past or we enjoy blaming and cribbing about our past.For a break from our stressful life is going for a movies or chat with some friend...however I feel lucky are those families who have kids in there house as stress disappears in minutes from their lives. Kids are their stress buster.
So please give 30 min daily to your child and see how your life changes, your tension disappears in minutes, you will be very successful and happy. Their soft touch is so soothing and relaxing , their smile and that innocent look,the chuckle in their laugh and that twinkle in their eyes wow....... its heaven. The thought itself is so relaxing.......
Spending time with them not just relaxes us however our few words of true appreciation and that look in our eyes that yes I am listening to you will raise their self esteem ,give them the feeling of being loved and wanted.
Do this daily and see how their personality is groomed, then they wont have to go in for Personality development classes. Issues like socially withdrawn , low in confidence, many fears like fear of rejection, failure of failure will disappear.
Remember True personality is developed at home with parents.
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